The Truth About Women

I found this little gem....

I don't think you males will ever understand Women!

These boots are made for...... stomping around My new dungeon!

Well, strictly speaking (which I do like to do) this is my new old dungeon!

Some of my long time slaves/fans/stalkers may remember it from a year or two ago....and I'm pleased to announce it has made a return!

The Pink Palace, as I like to call it, is still available however you lucky little males have two choices now! I spoil you too much. But you suffer for it in the end. You all do! ;)

I will warn you that this dungeon is a very harsh environment. It's everything you deserve!

I am very pleased to welcome Autumn and the change in footwear it brings. I am enjoying wearing my boots again. I particularly love the boots pictures below. They are skin tight and feel so good.

And what a beautiful metal heel! All the better to dig into your precious little nutsacks. Can you feel the pain? You ought to. It's exquisite

Some of you have been asking why I don't blog as often. "We miss your blog posts!" I'm absolutely sure you do! I'll tell you what....you find a way of increasing the day be 10 hours and you will find Me writing more often. Deal? You need to remember little men, I am not here to entertain and serve you, it's the other way around. When you are as popular and busy as Me, you don't get time to read blogs, let alone write them! If I do find Myself with any free time, I spend it relaxing, not thinking of ways to entertain you. Some of you need to remember, that I call the shots, I dictate what happens and when and you dance to My tune. And if you can't remember that simple little rule......well......See Ya!

I did grace some males with the honour of logging into Yahoo this evening for an hour or so. Here is the first message that appeared. It's little wonder I don't do online sessions very often.

Thank you for tell me what I need. How I get by and manage My life without that, I have NO idea!

This lazy, stupid male hadn't even bothered to do any research or check who he was speaking to online before contacting Me. As if I'm going to run to Essex to give him the honour of serving Me. I do travel, but I certainly don't make casual arrangements online with strangers!

So you see, if you come to me with "I want", "I need" you stand very little chance of getting that from Me. Oh, when will you males learn. However! There are some exceptions who serve Me delightfully. They stand out from the greedy, selfish males. They put My needs first, put themselves into My hands and I have such fun with those!

And now I have an hour free before bedtime and it's going to spent on ME. A little manicure and a foot treatment in my special foot spa..... Bliss!

Gracing you with My presence

Hello subs and slaves!



Did you think I had forgotten about you? That's probably because I had. Well, all but the special slaves anyway!


As usual I have been incredibly busy, however luckily for you my circumstances have change a little and I have a tiny bit more free time these days. Though I am sure I will fill that up with fun and excitement very soon!


There is too much to fill you in on! I *should* update a bit more regularly, but if you know Me, you know I don't do the things I should do, only the things I WANT to do.


You may have noticed I have changed the way you can contact Me by telephone. If you wish to contact Me via My mobile phone, you may do so between 6pm-7pm Monday to Friday. At all other times you can call 0909 967 3244. I will update my twitter account (see the top right hand side of this page) when I am available for calls on this line. It's costs £1.50 to call this number - see the terms and conditions at the top of this page.


The reason for this is two fold. First of all, I just can't put up with the constant interruptions during my day by males that call My mobile just wanting to chat or have a phone domination session. So, if you DO want to just chat or have a phone domination session, or book a real time session you can call 0909 967 3244. Or you may call My mobile 07770 569 462 to book a session between 6pm-7pm when it's more convenient for Me to take calls. And don't bother texting Me on My mobile number, I don't read the texts and you won't get a reply. If you wish to text Me, you can find My text number on the top of this page. Right that's that update out of the way.


Oh, and Niteflirt. For the slaves and submissives that like to call Me on Niteflirt, I am not using that service at the moment. For over a month, their telephone service has been broken to put it simply. They decided 'update' the site and quite frankly it has caused mayhem. I don't know why they are 'updating' the site, or who is behind it, but it is a mess and right now, and until they get their act together, I don't trust their service. I have already experienced difficulty in receiving payments for calls. I know this has affected practically everyone that has used their site recently, the callers and the ladies that take the calls. Their problems are numerous and I can't be bothered going into them. So, until they can build a service that is fully functional and trustworthy again, I won't be taking calls there.


As you may have noticed from my tweets during the last couple of days, I have been kicking someone's ass. It won't come as any surpise that it is a male's ass I have been kicking - athough not literally on this occasion (unfortunately). The deluded creature under estimated My good nature, and he wasn't quite prepared for My declaring war upon him! It has been a VERY long time since anyone has attempted to get on the wrong side of Me, but he put himself in that situation. And I think he thought he would get away with it! He didn't count on My instincts kicking in. Fight or flight? FIGHT! And guess who won? This male was a grovelling mess by the time I had finished with him, begging Me not to take things further, apologising, crying and eating every word. Regret? He has a double helping with My compliments.


I'm on an Eartha Kitt kick again. I love this song: My Discarded Men




I'd like to tell a little story
That's been told time and time again
About the foolish men who chased me
My discarded men

They used to tell me they loved me
But I knew better than them
I'd find them looking around the corner
My discarded men

Piercing eyes with a vengence
Tell them to count to ten
They'd bribe me with their diamonds
My discarded men

Telephone calls in the evening
They'd drive me round the bend
Caviar, champagne and roses
From my discarded men

Chased me after a fashion
I could never pretend
No substitute for passion
My discarded men

You think you can thrill me?
You can think again
Watch out or you might become
One of my discarded men

I like to dress up in sequins
And treat myself now and then
Perhaps I'll give a little favor
To one of my discarded men

You think you can win me
And be my special friend
Just take a tip from the others
My discarded men

It's My Birthday on Wednesday! Another year wiser to the ways of you males haha! If you wish to give Me a gift, you may visit Amazon and send a gift certificate to mail@mistressevita.com. It's completely anonymous, but should you wish to receive an acknowledgement of your gift, send me an email and I will reply.

Until next time subs and slaves!

Updated Sunday 18th October

Lindi St Clair aka Miss Whiplash

I found these gems on youtube the other day. Lindi St Clair was the original Miss Whiplash and has led a very varied and interesting life, even standing for Parliament at one point.

Now apparently there are 32 films in this series of short films, but I can only find the first 10. If you know of the whereabouts of the other 22, let me know!

Lindi is retired as a dominatrix now and lives in a rural farm raising geese, chickens, rabbits and ducks. I love her sense of humour and her practicality, and also her recycling of her old dungeon toys. I wonder what shall become of mine should I ever retire!

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Update to my secret diary line: where males go wrong!

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Recommended reading for men and Women - Blanche Black

I would like to introduce you to a fellow female blogger, Blanche Black. I am most inspired by her writing and I know you will be too. It is good reading for women and males.

Take her recent post, How To Train A Man, which begins:

Let me let you in on a little secret: Despite all their posturing, men are actually really vulnerable to women, and most men will do anything to hide this. Every day, they obsess over women’s bodies, women’s sensuality, women’s opinions of them, their ability to please women romantically and in bed…. and how to cover all that up under the illusion that they are indifferent to whether women like them or not. Their attempts to prove this indifference to themselves and others usually include disrespectful talk about women with the guys, trying to hurt women’s feelings, and generally defying what women want. Curiously, all such attempts from them seem to require an audience, usually male, which operates as a pep rally for psyching themselves out until they actually believe themselves.

And I particularly like her advice on how to calm an argument!

If you’re in a female-led relationship, you can make a policy of stopping a heated argument by tying him to a chair in the bedroom for a little while and getting other things done around the house. Don’t forget to gag him! It gives him time to calm down and rethink his approach and it gives you time to do something you enjoy instead. Finish that book you’re in the middle of, or order take-out and relax in front of a rented movie.

Blanche posts rather infrequently, but her blog is definitely worth book marking. Some of the other subject she has talked about are; Men Serve Women who Lead, and Benefit from it, Chivalry is Not Dead, Porn is Not Man's Best Friend,Why?

An all round empowering read!

I've updated My secret diary line. Catch up on the finer details of My life!

New toy!

I know this will get some of My slave's heart racing! What a delightful predicament you will find yourself in when your arms are incased in My new leather Armbinder!!

It just arrived this afternoon and I haven't had a chance to take it for a test drive. Perhaps tomorrow...... ;)

AND it's going to be great for hog ties too! I can't wait to see a helpless males squirming in this beauty - or at least trying to! Awww, my poor little victims..........

Funny and Bad......

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHHAAAAAA!

Public humiliation - and the best part? These males have done it to themselves!

Meet Relentless, X2C, Pipelayer, Pressure, Satisfaktion, and their 'Late Night Special'.

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHHAHAAAAA!

I can't stop..... hold on a minute..I need to catch My breath..!

Pay special attention at 1.55 when a couple of........sea anemones come floating through the room....HAHAHAHAHAHAH!

I can't watch any more of it......



I mean. What WAS that?!

I like the way they all go off camera and just Relentless is left dry humping on his own.

I seriously hope this is a wind-up video, as these guys can't really be serious!

And that piece of furniture should be burned as soon as possible - I feel so sorry for it.

Yes, yes, I know, I know, long time, no post. Well guess what? I am busy! So you....just have to wait and keep visiting my blog like a dog who has been promised a biscuit. There, there...good pet.

Needless to say everything is good in My part of the world. How is it in yours? Don't answer! ;)

But onto some sad news......

I dip into blogs now and again, just as you dip into mine. One of the blogs I liked to visit was written by Jessie Kitty from Nashville. I was very, very upset to discover she died on the 8th May this year in a road accident.

Taken from her obituary:

On the 8th of May 2009, Jessica Eastwood of Nashville left this optimistic note for her companion of 10yrs, Joseph Williams, "Stars are twinkling back at your soul. There's so much to look forward to, so you smile, Jessie" That afternoon she put on her helmet on her way to see Joe at work, on her moped, which she loved to ride. When perhaps she was cut off and struck something hard that threw her off the moped striking her head. She died 2 days later May 10th 2009 after surgical removal of a massive hemorrhage. She was 28 yrs old born on February 24th 1981

What a lovely note she wrote for her boyfriend on her way to see him at work.......

I had never met this Woman or even interacted with her online, but her death affected Me quite deeply. She was only 28 and of course had many years ahead of her. She lived with her much loved boyfriend of many years, Joe, and a handful of cats and dogs.

I can't say we shared out style of dominance. In fact, I believe she enjoyed 'sugar daddy' males moreso than submissives, though she would certainly have fun with them too. However, what I liked about her the most was her gung ho attitude. She wasn't afraid to speak her mind, confront problems, admit her weaknesses, share her thoughts and her passions and her zest for life was infectious.

Jessie had a presence online for a number of years and I know she had a big band of followers and male admirers. I can only imagine the impact of her passing away must of had on those males that served her, and of course, not forgetting her boyfriend Joe who it is apparent she loved dearly.

It's strange how a death of someone I have never met has touched me so much. I hope Jessie is happy where ever she is and is having a ball - just as she did in life. RIP Jessie Kitty. You will be missed. x

Hello/Goodbye!

No sooner am I back than I am off on My travels again!

There will be no sessions until next week, and you will be lucky if you can get hold of Me on the phone. I wonder if you will survive!

I had a good day out with a slave recently. We went out and about and visited an old town. Imagine My delight when I saw these public stocks! Slave was soon told to go into them - pity I didn't have any rotten fruit with Me. He seemed a bit too comfortable there, even when members of the public were walking past and laughing at him!

If you want to know more about My weekend adventures you may call My secret diary line and get the inside scoop!

Bon voyage My pets!

Home again

As some of you may be aware I was away all last week on an overseas trip. I didn't have My phone on for much of the time and I know lots of you were tyring to get in touch. Well, I am back now, so you may try calling again.





I had a wonderful time visiting friends and I even met up with a couple of slaves. They were delighted to hear that I was coming over to their cities as they have always wanted to serve Me, but let the distance stand in their way. No distance should be too far for a male to travel to see Me! So, these males were very, very lucky indeed.





My trip was a lot of fun needless to say. I've been home for a few days now, and am getting back into the swing of things again and am full on busy once more! No rest for the wicked. And I am delightfully wicked at times!





If you want to hear more about My trip and My slaves you can call my secret diary line!

I have so much going on right now, and it's all very exciting! I love My life. It's never dull. And I love being entertained by slaves!

I am meeting up with a girlfriend tonight and we shall be hitting the town. It's such a beautiful day today, and I am writing this from the comfort of My reclining chair in My garden on My laptop - one of My super slaves installed a wireless network for Me when he got My new computer. It's proving very useful already!

I am taking Niteflirt calls today too, so catch Me whilst you can if you want to speak to your Goddess!

All I need now is a slave kneeling beside Me ready to fetch Me cooling drinks........!